Was I doing something wrong? Was I less valuable because I accepted financial support? Would my friends understand, or would they judge me if they knew? That knot? That was shame. And honestly, it took me a solid year in the bowl to recognize it for what it was and work through it. Here’s what … Read more
I’ve spent eight years in this lifestyle, and I’ve eaten at places where the waitstaff knows your name before you arrive and restaurants where the silverware alone costs more than my first car. I’ve also watched brilliant, gorgeous women fumble their way through arrangements because nobody taught them the unspoken language of fine dining—and how … Read more
Look, I’m just gonna say it—there’s a moment in every sugar baby’s journey where she realizes that not all designer bags are created equal in the eyes of wealthy men. I learned this the hard way during my second year in the bowl. I’d saved up from a few arrangements and bought myself this gorgeous … Read more
I’m gonna be honest with you—this is the hardest piece I’ve ever written. Three years ago, I lost someone who meant more to me than I ever expected when we first met at that Michelin-starred restaurant in Tribeca. Michael wasn’t just my sugar daddy. He was my mentor, my friend, the person who believed in … Read more
Look, I’ve scrolled through hundreds—probably thousands—of sugar baby profiles over the years. Some made me want to reach through the screen and give the girl a high-five. Others? I literally couldn’t tell you what made her different from the twenty profiles I’d just passed. Here’s the thing about sugar baby profiles: they’re not just digital … Read more
Look, I’m just gonna say it—when I started sugaring in Manhattan back in 2016, I thought having three sugar daddies simultaneously made me some kind of genius. Spoiler alert: by month two, I was double-booking dinners, mixing up whose favorite wine was what, and genuinely wondering if I’d accidentally called Marcus by David’s name during… … Read more
Look, I’m gonna be real with you—the first time I walked into Per Se in Manhattan with a sugar daddy, I was absolutely terrified I’d use the wrong fork and expose myself as someone who grew up eating Olive Garden as “fancy dining.” That was seven years ago. Since then, I’ve sat across from CEOs … Read more
Look, I’m gonna be honest with you—after eight years in the sugar bowl and countless conversations with successful men across NYC, Miami, and LA, I’ve learned something that would’ve saved me so much time if someone had just told me upfront: wealthy men are actually way more complicated than Instagram makes them seem. Yeah, they … Read more
Look, I’m just gonna say it—when I first heard the term “sugar baby” back in 2015, I thought it was some kind of trendy nickname for a millennial with expensive taste. Spoiler alert: I was kinda right, but also wildly off base. After eight years navigating this world—from awkward first dates at The Modern in … Read more
Look, I’m gonna be real with you—the sugar babies who keep quality men interested for years aren’t the ones who lay everything out on date one. They’re not the ones texting paragraphs about their entire life story before the first M&G. After eight years in this lifestyle—from meeting wealthy men in Manhattan penthouses to Miami … Read more