The Girlfriend Experience is what I have coined here in the sugar bowl as a way to explain a specific type of sugar baby role. There is a growing market for this in the world of sugar arrangements, escorting, cam girls, etc. Now this does not mean that you are getting paid for an actual “girlfriend experience” by being rude, trying to fix what they have wrong, or chilling out at their house in PJ’s and a bowl of potato chips. No. This is a particular service.
For the time that you are with your sugar daddy you are the dream girlfriend. From the moment you see him your time is his time. You are his happiness, what he has been looking forward to all day. Many sugar daddies are after more than sex. They want ‘true’ affection and to feel loved. They want someone they can confide in and that will listen without judgment. You are a close friend, an ally, and you back them up without question.
The Girlfriend Experience is a role. Sugar babies have to be good actors and this is without a doubt a great way to test your abilities. Some sugar daddies are rarely available whereas others have much more free time. The Girlfriend Experience can make you the dream girl for just a few hours or can be a twenty-four seven job (depending on your pay of course). Does he have time freely throughout the day and wants to talk? Great! You’re free too, aren’t you?
As the dream girlfriend you have to remember to stay positive. You have two emotions: Happy and Horny. It is not your time to complain about you friend Mary who is screwing Jack behind Jill’s back- it is about giving your time to him and listening. Let him talk about his problems even if they seem insignificant to you. Let’s be real, their problems of their wife bitching can seem a bit anti-climatic to you who is scraping the bottom of the bucket to make that next rent payment, but that is not the way he will see it.
Sometimes when being the dream girlfriend you have to get creative. You have to go out of your way to do things for him. Send him a good morning text or a good night kissy face. Show up to a restaurant early and order his favorite wine. Buy him a cheap nicknack because you thought he might like it. Leave him a sweet note under his pillow. Offer to learn his favorite hobby. When he takes you shopping insist he buys something for himself (that you pick out). The possibilities are endless! Be sweet, be nice, and be what makes him smile throughout the day. I promise you, if he is smiling then you will be too.
*Be sure if you are leaving him a surprise that he is not married. Don’t want to surprise the wife…
The Girlfriend Experience is a role you can play. This is usually the role that I play because it has been the most successful for me personally. It builds a bond between you and your sugar daddy that goes beyond a transaction where you truly want to see each other smile. You go into an arrangement knowing he is getting something and in return you are getting financial help, so why not use that to maximize both of your happiness?
