Most likely you are still a Rookie Sugar Baby. I say this because vet SB’s have already realized that the chance of them finding a rich, handsome, caring Sugar Daddy is slim to nada. However, you are not alone. This is a huge issue with SB’s. The trade-off doesn’t always seem fair. You’re young, beautiful. great personality. Him? He has grey hair, wrinkles the size of the Grand Canyon, his children are older than you, and his “fit” description wasn’t quite accurate, but he has enough money to buy Disney. Basically, he’s no John Stamos, but he’s offering you a very generous allowance.
First, know that each person is different. Some SB’s will take the less desired allowance to be with someone they are at least somewhat attracted to, while others will take whatever can get their bank accounts to grow faster. Personally, I’m in this for the money, not the attraction. I don’t care what you look like as long as my wallet is filled with your money. What I try to do is find something about them that I am attracted to and focus on that. Are they funny? Do you have a common interest? Find that thing and focus in on it. You find a good Sugar Daddy. He’s old enough to be your grandfather, you are eating at expensive restaurants, traveling to exotic places, and you begin having sex. He isn’t attractive, yet you still grow to like him AND you’re getting paid for it! This is how it usually works for me.
BUT ANGEL! I don’t like his personality, I don’t like his looks, but the allowance is great!
FOCUS ON THE MONEY! This is a mutually beneficial relationship. This man is paying for your time, he knows his money is important to you. However, you should be giving him the quality time he is paying for. Showing up as little as possible and just making it through the date barely acting interested isn’t fair to him and he will eventually find someone else no matter how hot you are.
When it comes down to it, some SB’s refuse to be with someone they don’t find attractive and there is nothing wrong with that. However, you must realize you will not get the same allowance as someone who looks at the money first. Having sex with someone you can barely stand to look at is an art with a good payout. So how do you decide? Sit down and list your priorities. Which is more important to you?
